I just hit my 30s and while I scoffed at the idea at first I am coming around. I’m an engineer. It’s hard to find an equal match in men (not just job wise but overall picture). Either they do everything I do and still expect me to cook and clean or they think women asked to be equal to men so they be equal which gives them the out to be cruddy partners. They rise to the level of malicious equality.

LAT might be worth trying.